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Old Nov 16, 2014, 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted by kmptrgeek View Post

Was is disturbing is how I just slipped over into a state of mind where I tried to make contact with this other woman, "just because I wanted some answers". I justified it by saying to myself I was trying to find "closure". It would have destroyed my life if I had been able to make contact. I'm still scared to death of what I'm capable of.
Do you have any online space that is completely private to you? If you do, write down what you would like to tell that woman to achieve closure, and possibly even think through what she might say in response, but do not actually send this to the woman at issue.