I've been in that situation before, with my ex-husband. Poor grammar, good career, religious. Meanwhile, I was highly educated and was NOT religious. We'd get into fascinating religious discussions all the time (not arguments, just cordial discussions).

It eventually became a platonic relationship. Sadly, it was after we'd married. Needless to say, it ended in divorce. We are still close friends, though. In fact, he's currently my ONLY friend. We've been happily co parenting our children since 2002.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't give up. Yes, he may have different beliefs than you, and his education isn't as strong, but if he's a good man, those things can be overlooked. Next time the poor grammar tears its ugly head, remind yourself that's just how he talks and has no bearing on the quality of his character. When religion comes up, try to be accepting of his beliefs. Compromise is always a possibility. My ex and I decided that our kids could attend church with him, but I was allowed to encourage them to be open to other possibilities.

You may find that your love for him cools after a while, or you might discover that your acceptance of him grows stronger once you put your own judgments on the back burner.

I wish you the best of luck in sorting this out. I know it's not easy!

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