Thread: I'm Furious
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Old Nov 17, 2014, 03:54 AM
Tommo Tommo is offline
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Originally Posted by Nevermourn View Post
What just happened? This morning, my mother told me to wash the dog before she went on a day long trip to Alabama with my dad, well I couldn't do it right away because I had friends over. I'm not very social but they needed to do their senior paper so I let them use my computer. I also have a very bad memory. This evening my parents came home and everything seemed fine until they asked me if I had washed the dog. I felt really bad that I had forgot...so I started to walk downstairs to offer to do it. Instead, I get don there and my parents are enraged. They yell about how irresponsible and lazy I am, and complain that I never do chores because I'm so selfish, despite the fact that I do chores every day. They said I was grounded and ordered me to take all the electronics out of my room and into their closet. I tried to explain that it was an accident and that I wasn't being selfish, but they refused to listen, telling me how much of a brat I was. Well...I have anger issues, so I got furious at their inadequacy to understand my predicament, so furious, in fact, that I wanted to HURT something. I knew hurting someone else or myself was a bad thing to do because I would regret it later, so instead I screamed to unleash my frustration. It wasn't something that could wait because of how angry I was...so my dad rushes over and starts spanking me, he hit me about five or six times, mostly across the hips and spine, but I was enraged I could hardly feel it. Him spanking me just made me want to ah, do horrible things in revenge. So I rushed outside to get some cold air, and stroke my cat to calm myself down. The. My mom just had to come out and scream about what a selfish and ungrateful brat I was, and ordered me inside to get my electronics, so I stomped up stairs and laid down because I knew I would throw that stupid tv if I had picked it up. She continued to nag and threaten me but I ignored her until I calmed down enough to haul the tv down to their room. Now I'm sitting here having very nasty thoughts, and I guess I want some advice...
You are acting irresponsibly...and they are over reacting. I have dogs...and they are loving creatures. They needed the attention and you just shined it on...

I don't know your situation...and knowing what your situation is would clue me in to whether or not your parents over reacted.

You should have washed the dogs...period. You didn't...you offered excuses...maybe even good ones...but, still, you acted irresponsibly.

Just telling it like it is...

Saying that, however...you should NEVER have been spanked. This is where I feel your parents need some growing up to do.

You said "you are furious". You also said that your parents also came pretty unglued. What's the difference??? Who's the bigger person??? Not you. Not them. Everybody loses.....