I'm kind of in the same sexual boat as you are. Two years, very little sex. Like every four to six months. It's killing me. He has low testosterone (he's 58), and he simply doesn't want to do anything about it. No doctor, no therapy. I love him enough to stay with him for now, but I suspect that when I have the financial resources, I'm going to move on. IMO, a healthy relationship involves the powerful intimacy of physical love.

That being said, it's very possible that the stress of the changes is really getting to him.

For the time being, before you make any decisions, try being loving and compassionate towards him. Don't bring up sex for now. Just let him know you love him and are there for him. Who knows? Maybe with the support you give him, his stress will become easier to manage, and you guys can get back on track.

Good luck!

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