Over a year ago, I had an affair with my BF's best friend... He also happened to be my bf's sister's husband... He was already a serial cheater, but it was my first affair after 12 years of loyalty. I considered him a friend since I have known him for so long... I can't even begin to come to terms with what I was thinking. He is the exact opposite of everything I find appealing in a man, yet he fed me some BS compliments and I fell for it... due to low self esteem and not feeling wanted in my own relationship after 12 years. I also just think I was insane. I went crazy and started going to the bar and getting drunk and lost tons of weight...

Afterwards, my bf and I decided to try to work it out. We got married and had a baby and we're happy. However, my affair partner (his brother in law) still tries to contact us... he still claims to be in love with me... his sister hates me and won't speak to either me or her brother. She also stalks me... creates fake facebook accounts and tries to become friends with my friends and starts messaging them horrible rumors about me. She's trying to destroy me. I get that I betrayed her... But i was her husband's 4th affair. She will not divorce him. She forgives him.. I don't expect her to forgive me, but why is she obsessed with me over a year later? will this ever end? she tried to contact people at my job to spread rumors about me. I don't know what to do. Contacting the police is out of the question, because it requires a police report and I don't want it getting out that we have this screwed up love-rectangle...

I just feel that if I show remorse and will not speak to him and admit what I did wrong, why is she still hunting me down yet he blatantly says that he has NO regrets and still loves me and everyone is fine with him. What the heck??