Oh, I can definately understand. I stumble over my words all the time. Try not to share too much too fast, in my experience it has led to what I said being used against me. As for the personal inquiries, I have that problem too. You don't wanna be rude but also don't want to answer anything too personal. I would tell them in a nice but firm way that I'd rather not discuss that but then again I have communication troubles so listen to some other replies first! Good luck