Thanks ~Christina and Trippin2.0. I appreciate it.
Part of it is, I just need a break from her. I don't really want her coming at all in 2015 - not coming and taking over my house. I can deal with it if she comes to town and stays in a hotel or with friends (she has a ton of friends locally to socialize with, despite not having lived here, go figure). But I don't really deal well with the invasion of space and the 24x7 time together, it's just too much...
Thanks... I see T on wednesday, so I guess this goes up on my ever-growing list of stuff to talk to him about!