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Originally Posted by sinking
Thank you all.
Now i find it weird and rather cold of me to not be thinking much about her and crying only when i see her belongings or sometimes when talking about her with my family. i feel like i should think about her more and cry more. i feel wrong and guilty for not being more sad and upset. to a certain degree it still doesnt seem real, but still... have i already ovecome it? after less than 2 weeks? does it mean i didnt love her enough?
what do you think?
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I think grieving is a process that happens in degrees. We find out she died...we grieve a little. We think of our lives together...we grieve as much as we can right now.
Something triggers us and we are back in the grief and we grieve a little more...
It is hard to say how long we may grieve, but we can only grieve as much as we allow us to at this time.
I think you care more than you can feel right now only because it is too much to expect to overcome a lifetime of pain and suffering in a couple weeks.
Be patient with yourself and allow grieving to happen at appropriate times and it will.
