To answer your question, no you aren't screwed. My wife was my first as well. For different reasons, but the same outcome. From my perspective it's a matter of seeing what you have in front of you instead of checking out the grass on the other side of the fence.


Don't settle in on this. Just because other men couldn't control themselves doesn't mean you can't. If you guys are having trouble, then you need to go to couples counseling and work it out. But if it's just that you see a hot woman and get all sweaty-palmed, then that's fine, just control those impulses.