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Old Nov 17, 2014, 08:38 PM
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Originally Posted by JoshCube View Post
I don't think I have an obsession, I just feel like I want to fall in love with several different women. I'm not looking for "less meaningful sex", I want to date several women and feel an emotional attachment with them. Kissing another woman under a waterfall for example would do the day for me, even if sex wasn't involved at that time. My wife and I are very compatible, we have the same personalities, are both into video games, and we both get multiple orgasms during sex when we tell each other how much we love each other. No, there are no struggles in our marriage.

I love my wife very VERY much, don't get me wrong, its just that a part of me wants to fall in love with other women as well. I guess this is just the way my male brain is wired. I can't stop thinking about other women. I want to feel their hair....touch their skin.....press my lips against theirs.....I can't stop thinking about it.
I understand what you are expressing. I'm not personally convinced that this is strictly because of your religious upbringing. Similar statements have been made historically with varying reasons as motives, to justify the desire to stray.

I'm sure the upbringing caused it's own damage, yet, life is typically much more complex than that.
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