Hi everyone. I am having relationship problems and hoping i can get some supportive info from others.
First off i have ocd, adhd, and anxiety disorder. When my girlfriend and i first met i hid nothing from her, she hid nothing from me either, she also has anxiety disorder and she is Manic Depressant. I thought hey no problem, we are both crazy so this could be fun.
2 years later, I can handle her usual ups and downs, we argue more when she is having an episode but we usually work through it. However about a month and a half ago her grandmother who basically raised her passed away and since then she has been on extended bout of deppresion. I know being bipolar that she needs some space but i am scared to leave her alone. Nothing i do or say seems to help. I ask her was she ready to end the relationship and she said no that she loves me and doesnt want anyone else and i feel the same. However this current episode is driving me crazy, i just cant seem to pull her out of it and she doesnt seem to want to get better.
What can i do to help her? I have almost given up but i dont want to. I love her and want to spend the rest of our lives together however i have been so overly stressed by her moods lately that it is causing me actual health problems.
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