dang hooligan on point
hey guy ummmmmm i know it works so much better when u have a do and don't list
here is what i picked up from dating my set of ladies
1 distractions ........if she is up for going out and doing things u know her best hit her with a happy cry ( happy cry is when u do something so perfect they just cry happy because they do not know what to do) .........if not then fall back on the old fashion one get a movie she will love watch it at home and just be
2 at some point she will decide to talk on her own about what is looping in her head .........at this point u are on 24/7/365 call duty ........do not know when it will happen it all depends on the loop but at somepoint she will want to break it and from what u said she is attached so means u would be the first person or then her best friend ..........until then u leave it alone unless u see signs of harm coming then u have to say something
3 odds are some of the trouble is human guilt /do not pity me/fear of rejection ......so like hooligan said no more that talk only reassurance that u are sticking around when u seen a natural chance to do it
now the fall back plan (plan b) this plan is only to ever be used in cases of extreme trouble or danager ........understand once u uncork and use this it can never go back and she will also have u by the balls (no way to get out of it)
if u see her with more then normal cuts bumps bruises ........if u hear her talking about the point of life and anything along those lines.........if rage pops up at the wrong times or for something tiny really nothing (spilled milk)
"baby if u love me u will go and see a doctor something is not right and u are not getting better time to get some help ........i love u but this is hurting me to see u in so much pain "
the fight will start u stick to guns and see the doctor but doing this means she can now use this card on u and u can not ***** complain or argue (u might end up going to a wedding show with her ) u been warned
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