first off say thanks to your mom ........some of those places are nice others are just money farms

as for your sleeping ...completely understand u are not enter and holding rem sleep so it is not restful .........and i get u on the old friend thing (most of them think i am dead now only kept 3)

the whole date thing ..........stop it u are putting your foot in your mouth........no talking about medical stuff until 4th 5th date before the happy fun time in the bedroom.......and then only tell them yah i am what ever u are on meds for it .......leave it at that if they want to know old stories about how u are not on meds ( tell the funny ones of u doing something crazy )

as for making your sister understand ..........give it to her she is asking for it be 100% blunt honest about it and then lay down paperwork on the side effects of long term use of the meds u are on ........then talk ............she will get it or she will not .....but u tried