I have been for the most part stable when it comes to my bipolar and since I have been the new doctor I'm seeing recently put me on concerta for my ADHD and it has been a life saver! It hasn't fixed my attention completely but it has helped it enough where I have good working days again.

I can relate to your husband though because I'm horrible at communicating what's going on with myself and this can drive the gf nuts. Sometimes it can lead to a fight and that usually only makes the situation worse. We've both been working on it (through therapy) and she's learning to become more patient with me and I'm working on the communicating part.

Don't get me wrong, I still have my bad days with either the bipolarity or the ADHD but with the right meds, it's really helped a lot.