Went to session yesterday. We helped a little one who was stuck in the bathroom. She is now safe with our helper who is six. It is hard to believe she is no longer stuck in the bathroom. But now when we see her she is up and happy and not in the room. We also realized something while talking with our t. Our t mentioned something about us not helping the little one because she was left in the bathroom. We became defensive and offended by her saying this. We were helping. We were acknowledging her as being sad but not thinking we could help change her situation. We were helping but in a way like we have always done. Now we are working on changing our way of being in the world. So the way we help each other may need to be redefined. This is something that we will need to think about to understand what we need to do to best help everyone. It was important for us to realize this because it opens up possibilities. Everyone will think about it and decide what works given the direction we are trying to go in. A lot happened in session that was helpful