Hi, i've just found this site and have spent the morning reading some of the posts. So helpful!! The reason I was searching for sites like this was because I'm having huge trouble in trying to make my own relationships last... I meet a girl, things go great for a few months, then I'm not interested and break it off, go back and see if can we try again (which we usually do) and then keep going around in the same circles until eventually she's sick of me.

I've come to the conclusuion that I've got emotional, communication and self-esteem issues that I need to work through and I need to consider some therapy. Before that though I would like to try and get a better handle on what's happening here, what can I do to get out of this circle and improve myself ? Would anyone be able to recommend any books that would get me moving in the right direction ?