I haven't had a relationship in years and a date in a couple of months. I kind of want to start dating, but I have a lot of issues with depression and anxiety, not to mention my sex drive is next to nothing.
Well, that said, I *casually* dated this guy some time back, and its VERY clear he doesn't want a relationship or anything, and I wouldn't really want one with him either (don't find him particularly physically attractive and the sex sucked), but he called me out of the blue (yeah, like most of these wankers do)
Anyway, my question is, since I've been experiencing a lot of anxiety to the point where I've become reclusive, and I want to change that, should I call this guy back? He's harmless. It's a chance to get "out and about", and I'm having less and less of those because I'm becoming a freakin' hermit.
On the other hand, I have no interest in having sex with him and he'll only disappear for months again, only to resurface for whatever reason, but I don't really care about that.
I'm just wondering, should I basically take this baby step to be social/dating again, or should I work on bigger and better things (which I'm not 100% are going to come any time soon)?
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