Cerebralgecko - Thank you for some good ideas. I am very sensitive to touch. I usually keep my socks on. I often keep my shirt on to. For some reason socks provide a since of safety. (like when you go to the ob/gyn and you leave your socks on) A shirt provides safety because it covers the vulnerable parts of me. The parts I can't stand to have touched.

I agree compliments and such are a huge help. More then I had realized.

The T has more or less said, you know he needs to figure out what to do with his own pent up sexual energy that doesn't involve me so much. Yes he masterbates and I have no issues with that. If I am not going to be availiable for him I know he has to do something. He has used pron on very rare ocessions. I have no problem with him using pron. He chooses not to and I am good with that to. He know that I am very open and accepting of his needs and how he deals with them.

We do have sex once every two weeks or so. Depending on hormonal issues and stuff that seems to get in the way. Some times it is more often then every two weeks becuase of the coming of hormonal changes and I know he will have to go another week with out sex. And I don't want to push him to the breaking point where the stress is to great.

That last paragraph.... INTERESTING Very interesting.