Hello everyone!!
I am new to this forum and want to introduce myself! My name is Natasha and I am a recently separated mother of 2 beautiful little girls. My ex who is legally still my husband and I were together for 11 years and married for what would have been 7 this December.
Life got hard a few years ago and he got in to drinking n drugs. I had no idea and had another child with a man who was lying and deceitful to me. When I found out I did what I felt any good wife would do, I stood by him. I helped him and said we will work through it. He stopped working, I started working. I did what I could do to help him until one day he left.. almost 4 months ago he walked out at midnight on me and our 2 daughters ages 4 and 1.
His family was always a problem in our marriage however he could never balance his relationships. His mom always engaged in a power struggle and now I am done fighting. He does not seem to be worth the fight. I was and am worth the fight but he doesn't see that. He claims to not want a divorce but he's run away living with his mother now. A 38 year old "man" living at mom's.
Life happens and now we pick up the pieces and move on. I am back at home with my parents who are my rocks. They help me and keep me going every single day. Through this group I wish to find support and offer support. We are all going through something crazy but that doesn't mean we are alone! Let's not let the crazy make us crazy. Lol. I look forward to getting to know you all and your stories, it helps knowing I am not alone =)
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