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Originally Posted by Mimielam
Hello, Because I've been in a yoyo time for the past few months, I have not really been there for my family..Now that I'm starting to be "me again" but still recovering and setting limits..it's a bit difficult but I'm working on that. When, I'm feeling fine I'd say I'm half and half about expressing my needs...all depends.
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Its really good that you are starting to feel like your old self, but
now is the most important time to make sure you don't take on more than you can handle. The old adage proves true,
you need to be able to walk before you can run. In other words, don't take on too much too fast. Its really important that you look after you first, and get into the habit of letting others know when you are 'available' and when you need some 'you time'. The last thing anyone wants is for you to burn yourself out and be in the position of not being able to help yourself or those around you. Its hard but you need to be somewhat selfish with yourself.
