can you try again to contact your therapist? if you could sort out his never returning your call then maybe that would help things a little. i guess under the circumstances i'd be tempted to cancel too. sometimes when i'm in that position i try and think 'what would the healthiest way of dealing with that be?' can be a hard question. i don't know. i guess it just seems to me that if you do go to the group session with his not calling you back as the elephant in the room then yeah, it would be hard to talk. i know i'd feel kind of shut down from everything.

it is hard to go when we are feeling fragile. would you be able to say that you are feeling fragile in the session though? maybe your husband is feeling fragile too. sometimes one feels fragile because one is kind of on the edge of very real gains. could you try phoning tomorrow not to cancel, but to briefly talk to him?