He is 12. His grandfather died almost three years ago. When they(my parents) used to stay over they would sleep in my son's room and he would stay with me. He was very close to my father. IT was hard for him but he seemed to do well then all of a sudden stopped talking about it until recently. During the day he is confident and happy. Recently he seems more anxious about school,life probably having hormonal changes. I feel mean for wanting him out during this vulnerable stage but i Feel we are encouraging this behavior by not setting limits. He is my youngest and most sensitive child. That's why I was worried if this behavior is uncommon. Thanks for your advice It is greatly appreciated.