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Ok, having now read through the comments, he is at fault too. Manipulation into sex is abuse so it's partly his fault that he can't touch you.
My partners have both accidentally had sex with me while I was dissociating because they didn't realise. They have both done it once and once only. They now look out for the signs because they never want to do that to me again and feel awful for it having happened.
I go to PTSD group on Monday and one of the facilitators recommended me a book which has activities that partners can do together to help with the healing from sexual abuse, I'll find out the name and get back to you.
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“There is no magic cure, no making it all go away forever. There are only small steps upward; an easier day, an unexpected laugh, a mirror that doesn't matter anymore.” - Wintergirls
Things to keep in mind when interacting with me:
1. Do not try to medicate me. I am not on medication for a very good reason.
2. I don't do hugs.
3. If I ask for help, it is because I am at the breaking point, otherwise I have a bad habit of keeping quiet. Please do not brush me off.
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