I don't tend to forgive insensitive remarks.... but not because I'm judging them harshly, but because I think they're right and that there is something wrong with me. How could I have a need to forgive someone when the problem is me?

I don't tend to forget things that are said to me though. I will avoid someone if they've said things that demonstrate for SURE that they don't really like me at all (at least in how I interpret things).

On the odd time that I figure out that the issue is actually the other person and not me, then yes, I avoid them for sure and will cut off as much contact as I can.