I am generally OK...but there are remarks, not all insensitive objectively perhaps, but taken as such that jump out and up in my head periodically for years; and there are ones that have caused me to make decisions (not what I would have done) that were not right for me because, like panda, I take some to heart and believe I am ....
As I age, I find myself having urges to contact a couple of people I still could to ask what they meant when they said certain things----that I am sure they would no longer recall.
I feel, often, that others either know me better than I do, or that they don't know me at all----------------------