Also may I point out - ok she's not skinny, but who's to say she won't be in a year? When I met my husband I was a good four plus stone overweight. I'm now currently (four years later) smaller than I've ever been, at least since I was a teenager.
If you like her personality, can you not at all see past her weight? You lost weight, why is it impossible for her too? Just putting that out there...

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