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It's so confusing when we find ourselves in another person, but are fighting to pull ourselves out of that identity. Does that make any sense?

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That is interesting. Is this a matter of being one person alone (or in therapy) and another with spouse? I could see this and it would be also be interesting for the therapist to meld the two when working with you.

I too think you are working hard... and going would be an important thing.