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Originally Posted by Webgoji
I was in your shoes when I was 17 as well. I would ask girls out and get shot down all the time. I never went to prom and was a virgin until I was 26.
BUT!
You're still around little girls who don't know their head from a hole in the ground. Unfortunately, they won't start to get it until around 25 or so. Seriously. They're brains are not developed yet (yours either) and they won't be able to make good logical decisions for another 7 or 8 years. So basically kitty is in control and they're only interested in that hot guy.
Hang in there. It will change. At around 25 or so, some of them start to come around and realize that a good guy doesn't fit the imaginary image presented on TV or movies and they'll start looking for you.
Until then, do your thing and don't worry about them. You've got too many things you need to do than worry about trying to impress someone whose brain isn't even fully grown.
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I hope it doesn't take that long. My self-esteem is already low, being alone for eight more years would make it even worse. Not to mention the fact that there still isn't a guarantee that a woman will want me. There are some guys out there who are 40 and haven't dated yet. I know that there are more important things to worry about but at least some form of female attention or companionship would be nice. I try to take my mind off of girls but literally every time I see a couple or an attractive girl the depressing feelings come back.