It makes perfect sense. After my mother died I had to take care of my dad for the next two years. I don't feel like I went through the grief process at the time of my mother's death. I feel like I'm still processing it 6 years later, so you are not alone.
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Bipolar I, Depression, GAD Meds: Zoloft, Zyprexa, Ritalin
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