Very true cerebralgecko......My T was not so much concerned about my husbands needs being met just mine. My need to be left alone. I donlt think my H will ever go to see another T. He surely is not going to pay again for me to go see one.

As far as divorce goes you are exactly right he will be most angry becuase what he wanted all along was to be close to me and I rejected him for all that time, just like I would be even further rejecting him at the moment. I still don't know what to do about divorce. It is gonna have t be a wait and see kind of thing at the moment.