I think the problem here is you are looking for somebody that is perfect instead of somebody that is perfect for you in terms of a partner. Nobody is perfect – as much as I adore my Wife she does have her flaws and so do I and if you are waiting for a perfect person to come along then I am sorry to say the chances are you will be waiting for a long time.

It is possible some of the guys you like might not be asking you out because they are worried you will turn them down. My Brother-In-Law was like this with my Sister and she ended up making the first move and they have been happily married now for over 15 years.