^ Very good advice.

I'm going to try to go back to individual therapy because I can't get any intimacy either and it's not going anywhere. So instead of a "we" problem it's become a problem I have to handle on my own. Mrs. Webgoji doesn't seem to want to change it.

So yeah, your husband needs to back off of you and go talk to a therapist on his own to start working through it. Tell him The Webgoji said so.