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Originally Posted by hankster
Well your hair looks lovely in your avatar!! 
But i know what you mean. My mother says that because she is my mother, she should be honest and tell me my hairstyle doesnt suit me. I try to explain to her that that is only her opinion, not an absolute truth, and that maybe i have something to say about HER hairstyle. That gave her some pause, but not enough. After ten years, i can finally take a compliment from my t without feeling badly about it. |
lol!
My mother has always been obsessed with my hair. It's a control thing!!! Everyone else compliments me. But I feel like I don't deserve it for some reason. Lots of emotional/physical abuse over the years. Hard to know truth from lies. I can't take compliments from my T and I've told him. Not that he is untrustworthy just makes me feel uncomfortable! Strangers act more loving to me than my own mother. She has always said that I would be hurt by friends/strangers. Always making me paranoid about others being too nice! I hated /hate living that way. I don't want to be this way. Like I should only believe her compliments.