Hi, What do you consider "attractive" to yourself? Is it pretty clothes, a great hairdo, fancy cars, beautiful home, etc.? Or, is it an active mind, caring attitude, education advancement, etc.? Look inside yourself and see what makes you happy first. Alot of times, when you feel happy on the inside it just shows thru.

If there are areas that you could improve on the feelings you have about yourself, pursue it! If it is education-- go back to school, if it is showing caring for other individuals--volunteer. If it is a new hairdo, then make an appointment and go do it! Work on Your self-esteem and self-confidence and appreciate the things that you do find attractive about yourself.