I felt very scared of him. Would move out of a chair if he sat near me. I remember asking my mum when a teenager if I could stay with my aunt, his wife because I adored her but my mum said no and many yrs later explained why she had said no, it was because of what was Known about him.

He apparently had tickled my brother in an unappropriate way and was repremanded for that by my parents. I have a vague memory of sleeping in their bed, then nothing, then standing alone sticking objects up my nose. I'm sure all of this is because of what I learnt as I got older, but T says where would I have learnt to be afraid of him? I said children do sense things in people, but T didn't seem to accept that solution.

I do not believe that I would not remember something terrible happening. I am convinced I would know! and anything beyond my knowing is just false.