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Originally Posted by lulula
Hi! One thing to keep in mind is that your mind will tend to fill in what it's missing whether it is true or not. You need to have a frank discussion about sex with your fiancé. You don't want to be all whiny and insecure but you should let her know that you would like to have more sex. Not talking about and no longer initiating is just going to continue to put distance between you. How do you know she is disappointed?
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Thanks for your reply! We have talked about it. I even told her once before why I quit initiating physical contact with her. It helped for a couple weeks and now we are back where we were. I know she's dissapointed with it, she's made several remarks about it (in a joking manner) not realizing how serious I'd be taking it. Plus it's been pretty obvious.