My normal therapist. She does it all, family counseling, couples counseling, individual and sex therapy. So she's not a master at any of them by any means, but has a pretty broad range of knowledge.

For me sex is important because sex to me is about the emotional intimacy, not just getting off. It it was just about "getting off" my hand and I could handle it with far better efficiency. So I need to work through how to fill that gap of emotional closeness I'm not getting.