Poor gf and baby.... You need to take a long hard look in the mirror and grow up. I cannot believe you have even considered bringing a baby into this situation.

To continue this is disgusting and there is so much more I could say and want to say but won't other than I hope your gf finds someone she deserves.

You need to let your gf have a choice in whether she wants to live with someone like you. It is totally disrespectful and you are abusing her love and trust for you. I won't even start as far as the baby is concerned. YOUR priorities should be for your wife and baby.

So you've never believed in marriage BUT you believe in bringing a human life into this world????? You sound very young and I hope in time you see what it is you're doing and start making choices that are not harmful to your family