People in this world are all unique.
We all start out as acquaintances when we first meet someone.
Then as the relationship progresses we find out more about the person.
It's not that the person has necessarily changed from when we first met them. It's just that we see a bigger picture of who they are.
And we're all free to decide. We can take the relationship further and develop it into a friendship based on common ground and comfortable understanding of one another. Or we can decide that it will remain as casual relationships depending on our level of comfortability. It shouldn't disappoint us really because there is the expectation that somewhere along the track people's true colors eventually shine through. I guess the disappointment can creep in if we've seen enough of a persons side to begin believing that a friendship could form but then a curve ball gets thrown and we realise we were wrong. Some peoples true colors take longer than others to pop out. But rest assured they eventually will and you'll find out exactly who they are.
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