Kick denise to the curb. She is an ungrateful biotch. Free trip and still insists on having full control. SMH. The restaurant issue isn't an allergy issue, its a preference issue, so a total PITA. (I have allergy issues, and so I prefer certain issues, but I can find something almost everywhere with the exception of Mexican Restaurants. I have a feeling the trip will be miserable b/c the whole time you'll be sitting there thinking "we are doing this b/c of HER, not because I want to do it!" I don't think you or Sue will have a good time. I know you're non confrontational, but no sense in forking out even more money just because you don't want to make waves. I think at that point you'd be more of a doormat.