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Originally Posted by allme
Poor gf and baby.... You need to take a long hard look in the mirror and grow up. I cannot believe you have even considered bringing a baby into this situation.
To continue this is disgusting and there is so much more I could say and want to say but won't other than I hope your gf finds someone she deserves.
You need to let your gf have a choice in whether she wants to live with someone like you. It is totally disrespectful and you are abusing her love and trust for you. I won't even start as far as the baby is concerned. YOUR priorities should be for your wife and baby.
So you've never believed in marriage BUT you believe in bringing a human life into this world????? You sound very young and I hope in time you see what it is you're doing and start making choices that are not harmful to your family
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I'm well prepared to raise a child especially if we make it out of this together. Even if we don't I have the money. I just didn't want to be a single father to a newborn.
I'm not a habitual cheater and I've stopped seeing either of them finally made that decision to try to just focus on her. IF it doesn't work then I'm going to have to move on. But I'm not going to add to that.
And I always planned to have kids but no I didn't plan to get married. Marriage and having children are two separate things.
I grew up in a middle class upbringing with a loving mother who was never married. And I never felt it affected me poorly. I don't believe marriage affects how someone is raised especially an unmarried couple. The child cant even tell the difference.