Very few women experience orgasm during intercourse. I only just started experiencing it in the last year, after being sexually active for 7 years. I think it has to do with my being more comfortable with my body and my partner. However many women never achieve orgasm during intercourse. I nearly always have one during foreplay, a clitoral orgasm. I'll get wet when I orgasm, but I've never actually "shot" anything out, that I know of lol.

If you've had one, you'd know. Try having your boyfriend try to bring you to orgasm before sex with his hand....it will also make the sex more enjoyable.