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Originally Posted by livelaughlove22
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She now pees her pants at night. I don't want to constantly have to clean it up so I decided that at night she is going to wear pull-ups again. When I told her she got mad and said she wouldn't do it. I don't want to clean it up any longer. Should I give her another chance or tell her that if she was a big girl and didn't pee her pants she wouldn't have to wear pull-ups.
I know not to spank her or give her a timeout for having an accident because it could cause problems for her.
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Rather than tell her, could you involve her in the decision and talk it through, in a non shaming way? Telling her that "if she was a big girl and didn't pee her pants she wouldn't have to wear pull-ups." is actually shaming her. She can't help the bed wetting, I know that you know that - I can also understand that cleaning and washing sheets every day is hard going for you.
If you want her t wear pull ups, could you go with her to choose some (some have different characters) and mention that they are for big girls too? Make sure you let her know that it's ok and you're not angry.
Some great advice and articles on this thread, good luck. I know it isn't easy.