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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
I think it's really great that LL was able to share with T that she wasn't giving her what she needed and also that LL was able to express this as anger.
Others might get it wrong T's included and what's most damaging to us is not that they get it wrong, but that we don't tell them.
Soup
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Thanks Soup; that has been my default mode for years. I have started sharing scary stuff with my t and it has been ok so far. What I think is scaring me is that she's trying to give me independence and I'm far from ready. I hope she really listens on Wed. My parents brought us up so independent that they never did anything for us. I appreciate your post thank you.