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Old Nov 24, 2014, 12:29 PM
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Poohbah
 
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I actually felt this way a few weeks ago. I felt like the transference was gone and, wow, what was I going to talk about? I wondered if my brain or part of me just needed a break. I even told my T. that I felt a lot better and our conversations were light.
Then, I realized one thing I hadn't "fixed" so I decided to bring it up. And, now all of the feelings are back. Not in a bad way but I know I'm not done. And, a few relationship issues have come up for me to see that it's all related and I have more work to do.
I think we will go through phases like that. I've decided when I've had 4+ sessions of feeling better during and in between, then I'll know it's time to stop or really space things out. I see myself spacing my sessions until I eventually don't feel the need to come back. And, I'm sure I will be back for different life events as they come up. But, I have a ways to go...
I think you'll REALLY know when you're done - you won't even feel a need to ask/talk to us. It will be more of an annoucement vs any questioning.
Thanks for this!
JaneC, PeeJay