Bee, I can appreciate your situation and it certainly sounds like the situation is spiriling downward. My gf of 16 years has met someone on The Internet and she has decided after chatting with this man for less than 2 months, that she is moving with her 15 year old daughter to Vermont to live with this man. Given my experience with this situation, I suspect you chatted with this man for a while and then the decision was made to move to live with him. Unfortunately, when you chat with someone on the Internet, you see the person they want you to see and it is easy to become immersed with someone only to find he/she is different once you meet and live with them for a while. My advise would be to move back home where your family and freinds so you have access to your support system and try to pick up the pieces and move on as this man does not seem to be putting forth any effort to support you now you are living near him. I know what its like to be alone as I have been shut out since my gf met a man on The Internet. I wish things had worked out for you, but the reality of it is that things probably won't get any better than they are now and you deserve to be treated better than this. Best wishes to you and I hope whatever you do, that things will work out for you. Tony