This may just sound like family drama but it has significantly hurt my self esteem. How bad of a person are you if your own sister wants nothing to do with you? I have heard people base their whole opinion of someone on what a family member says about them.

This is starting to ruin the whole damn holiday for me now. I am trying really hard not to let it. My dad called me today, she told him that she was 'fine' with having everyone at her house. What a liar, she is just trying to make herself look good. So if I tell my dad the truth of it, who is he going to believe? The golden child or the one with a really bad history with him AND mental illness? Hmm....let me see.