Yes, I have to deal with this too on a daily basis. It's very hard sometime and also very draining.

Like you say, some of it is getting in and influencing me and my decisions. So often he will say that "we" have failed that I feel I am a failure. So often he will say that "we" are stupid that I think I am. Not only is he very negative but the "we" is also so often there.

" I " think that living in a negative way all the time makes a person very unhappy and hateful towards the whole universe.

I am a very positive person because if I were not I would have died a long time ago. It's very important for me to see the small beauty of this world and my concentration is usually in that direction. Harmony is what I live by, not maybe when he is around me because his negativity is very strong but when I am out of his sight I am a completelly different person.

I wish you wouldn't have to live with so much negativity dear Ozzie. You are a wonderful person. Try to feed your positivity with people who are also and see the small beauty that this world offer you.

Love you my friend! ((((((((Ozzie)))))))))