And somtimes by the time the have finished "dumping" on you - and are transferred to someone else - they are more calm.
There have been times that I have told them I need to hang up. I would like to be helpful but cannot under the circumstances - not sure they even hear it. I have hung up before - with warning.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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