Thank u for this post. I have a similar situation. I am married and inlove with my friend. Love my husband dearly but my friend is constantly on my mind.... Wont go away. I wait daily for him to message me.... And have the same stuck image in my head and how he makes me feel good. I wish i could make it all go away so that i can be true to my husband.... But i dont know how. Causes me to lose focus at work and interferes with my daily life... I just want it to stop